The Bridal Flower, One Floret at a Time
Stephanotis is sold by the floret rather than the stem. Each bloom is a small waxy white trumpet flaring into five pointed lobes, thick enough to feel almost artificial, and florists buy them in boxes and wire them individually into bouquets and headpieces.
It is the traditional bridal flower across much of the English-speaking world, and it is also called Madagascar jasmine, though it is not a jasmine. The scent is lighter and cleaner than true jasmine, and the flowers hold out of water far longer than anything that delicate has a right to.
Purity; effectively the only colour
The faint warmth inside the trumpet
The species; effectively the only one grown
Sold boxed by the bloom for wiring
Trailing stems, occasionally sold whole
Grown as a conservatory climber
Boxed florets need damp cotton, not a vase.
Chilling browns them; heat wilts them.
Fingermarks bruise the waxy surface brown.
Each floret is wired individually for bouquet work.
You will be ordering these rather than picking them off a shelf, and they arrive boxed on damp padding. Look for florets that are pure white and evenly waxy, with no translucent or fawn patches, which are bruises and spread. The small green calyx at the base should be fresh, not dried. Count them, because they are sold by the bloom and a wedding bouquet can take a hundred. Order more than you need: some will be damaged in wiring and there is no way to buy three more at short notice.
Grown under glass year-round, chiefly in the Netherlands and Israel, so there is no season, but there is also very little standing stock. Most florists order it in for a specific job rather than keeping it. It is expensive per floret, and a bouquet's worth adds up quickly, which is one reason it fell out of fashion for a period and has been returning as traditional bridal styles came back.
Bouvardia gives small white waxy flowers on a stem rather than loose, and is far easier to handle. Hyacinth pips, the individual florets pulled from a hyacinth spike, are the classic cheap substitute and are wired the same way. Gardenia gives the same waxy white character at a much larger size. Lily of the valley covers the same bridal role in spring. For the specific five-pointed waxy star nothing else is close.
Stephanotis is in the Apocynaceae, the dogbane family, which contains many toxic plants, and it is generally treated as mildly toxic to cats and dogs. The milky sap can irritate skin and mouths. It is not among the dangerous members of that family and is not on the ASPCA's main hazard list, but it is not a flower to leave where a pet will chew it, and the sap is worth washing off your hands.
Florets are damaged in wiring and there is no topping up at short notice. Ten per cent extra on a wedding order is normal practice.
Unlike almost anything this delicate, wired stephanotis holds for a day or more out of water if kept cool and damp. That is precisely why it became the bridal flower.
Cold browns the waxy surface. Cool is right; a fridge is not.
Because that is how it is used. Individual florets are wired by hand into bouquets, headpieces and buttonholes rather than arranged on their stems, so the trade sells them boxed and counted.
No. It is called Madagascar jasmine because of the white flowers and the scent, but it is in a different family entirely. The fragrance is lighter and cleaner than true jasmine.
Wired and kept cool, it will hold through a wedding day and beyond, which is unusual for something so delicate. Out of the bouquet, three to five days is realistic if the florets are kept damp.
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